New Prayer books

Starting on November 22 for Shabbat services we will be using our new prayer books. We just purchased copies of Mishkan T’fillah, the prayer book published by the Central Conference of American Rabbis, an affiliate of the Union of Reform Judaism. Although new for us, it was published in 2007 and is used throughout the country is Reform congregations. My liturgy professor at Hebrew Union College, Rabbi Doctor Lawrence Hoffman, said that each generation should write their own prayer book to reflect their own values. The prayer book is a complete worship service including all the prayers prescribed for all our holidays except the High Holydays. The English readings reflect what Jews in the 21st Century are concerned with, including feminism, social justice, Zionism, distinctiveness, and human challenges. We are a diverse people and Mishkan T’fillah tries to appeal to everyone. It gives many choices on the page to look at, either the Hebrew, direct translation of the prayers or poetic musings on our tradition. It is book that can move every Jew to worship.

I understand change is hard and congregants become attached to what they are familiar with. I feel we should all give Mishkan T’fillah a try.  Come to services – that is the only way to embrace a new initiative. I will be explaining the book at least for the first month that we will be using it, in hopes that you will become comfortable with the new text. This is an exciting adventure for TSS. Please meet me at services and let us explore Mishkan T’fillah together.

TSS – A congregation or a family?

As we watch the leaves fall from the trees, and brace for the coming winter months, we become centered on our home, family and the holiday traditions that bring us all together. And with Thanksgiving/Hanukkah just around the corner, we reflect on the many blessings bestowed upon us.

This holiday season, our Temple community is preparing all types of activities that will bring us together for bonding and fellowship. And in this season of thankfulness, we have an opportunity to reflect on just how fortunate we are to have found each other and a pathway to share our traditions and make new memories for our children.

Pizza pre-negs, Sing-a-longs, Hanukkah parties, Champagne Tastings, Book Clubs and Adult Education lectures are just a few ways we come together in an effort to create friendships that outlast a lifetime!

In this upcoming holiday season, there is no reason for any of us to be alone. Your Temple community is all around. There is a comfort in knowing that whatever we face, we face it with the support and warmth of the good friends and family we have made at Temple Shirat Shalom.

Change comes from within

This week’s Torah Portion Vayeitze deals with Jacob’s experiences in Haran. In the end Jacob was able to return to Canaan with a large prosperous family. The twenty years that he lived in Haran and worked for his uncle Laban were very hard. On numerous occasions Laban tricked Jacob. Jacob had to use all the cleverness he possessed to eventually get what he wanted. Jacob was a complicated character with many flaws. God had to teach him many lessons. One important lesson is that the end does not justify the means. It is not enough to want to do the good, one must do the good. The steps that we take to achieve the good must be just and honorable.

The central theme of the sedra is that we must struggle with ourselves to make a difference in our lives. Jacob has a dream and fights with an angel and comes out of that experience a better person, more secure, kinder and dedicated to doing the right thing. The Rabbis say that the “angel” is really Jacob himself, struggling with his negative traits. The portion implies that we can make ourselves better if we face our issues and struggle with our “demons.”

Family, Friends, and What Matters

Welcome to November, the time of year that reminds us of the importance of family, friends, and what matters in our lives. We are particularly fortunate that we are alive to see a once in a lifetime occurrence…

Yes, that’s right…we get to celebrate Chanukah and Thanksgiving at the same time!! We get to have turkey, latkes, and (insert favorite here) pie all at the same time. We get to overeat, watch football, and watch the tearing of wrapping paper as our children unveil the gifts that parents have hidden in closets, basements, and car trunks.

What better way to become fully enveloped in the warmth and love of family?

While we are basking in this holiday glow, let’s remind ourselves that this is also the best time to get involved with your TSS family. As you’ll see in this bulletin there are many, many activities on the schedule. Please pick those that interest you most and spend some time with us.